I’m now at day 15 of what will be a 16-day period without seeing my kids. They’ve spent the first part of summer with the ex. No surprise—the Goblin King was again difficult with vacation this year, but it does appear to have worked out in my favor. Once they’reContinue Reading
On the Goblin King’s first birthday after our split, our son really wanted to do something nice for his dad and buy a gift. He asked if we could buy him a cake. I was a bit reluctant (my ex wasn’t dealing well with the split and I was worriedContinue Reading
On several occasions since my divorce, I’ve met new people (like the kids’ friends’ parents) who have also had the opportunity to meet my ex. If given the opportunity to get to know them a little better, I’m always asked the same question – how did you ever marry thatContinue Reading
I know you all have been waiting with bated breath to hear what happened at my recent mediation appointment. I’m happy to report that it went much better than I expected. And as a bonus, (although I felt like it), I did not punch the Goblin King. As we enteredContinue Reading
Shannon Bradley Colleary, The Woman Formerly Known as Beautiful, has dealt with her share of asshats in her life. In fact, she could write a book. (Actually, she is writing a book). Luckily for Shannon, she’s used those experiences, and moved on – and she’ll be sharing what she’s learnedContinue Reading
After my Easter post and against my better judgement, I agreed to meet the Goblin King for mediation a few days later than the original date that was offered to us. That day is today. I got myself a new t-shirt to wear to the meeting. I’m going to ask youContinue Reading
Turns out, our entire relationship was based on false pretense. Your age. Your job. Your “happy” family. Even your hair color. Your sweaty brow betrays the heat. Stop trying to hide the smoke! The spell is broken. I can see the flames. Image Credit: Natara / freedigitalphotos.net Want Live By SurpriseContinue Reading
Happy Zombie Chesus Day! (Sorry if this offends you – I am a lapsed Catholic and have the utmost respect for whatever beliefs you may or may not have – but would point out that the dude rose from the dead according to the story…so…zombie). Anyhoo…the last few days haveContinue Reading
Today is International Day of Happiness (Happy International Happiness Day everyone!) It’s also #1000Speak Day for March. The theme this month is happiness. I have a much better understanding of “happiness” now than I ever have. In part, I think, because I’ve experienced unhappiness in my life. And it’s easierContinue Reading
I didn’t write about it here…but at Christmas, the Goblin King and I had another wobble. Although we have a very specific holiday agreement, it’s not in the court order. And although I strive wherever possible to ensure that we’re both on the same page well in advance of eachContinue Reading
