Your custody schedule probably contemplated all of the big holidays – but what about the small ones? Today I’m over at DivorcedMoms talking about my issues with scheduling Hallowe’en with the Goblin King! Image Credit:  (Edited) “Halloween In Blue” by Idea go / freedigitalphotos.net Follow Live by Surprise on Twitter, Google+, Facebook, Pinterest and Bloglovin LiveContinue Reading

Sorry guys – I don’t have a ton of time to write today but I thought I’d bring you a few Goblin Kingisms from this week’s e-mails (you’ll recall my previous posts on his issues with acyrologia): “I feel that you may have underling (sic) issues.” “When I stated aContinue Reading

I’m over at Divorced Moms again today discussing the trials and tribulations of exchanging clothing and other items when you exchange the kids. Come have a look!! Image Credit (edited):  David Castillo Dominici / freedigitalphotos.net Follow Live by Surprise on Twitter, Google+, Facebook, Pinterest and Bloglovin Live by SurpriseWant Live By Surprise in your inbox?  ClickContinue Reading

This Too Shall Pass 1

I am, yet again, shaking with rage. It happens every so often, and the trigger is generally the same. If you’ve been regularly reading my blog, I’d hazard you can guess who it is. I’m trying.  I’m trying so very hard to make everything simple. I break down every transaction,Continue Reading

coparenting after divorce

Are you wading through a new world, coparenting after divorce, and feeling like you’re completely helpless and don’t know what to do?  Checking out Divorce Blogs is a great start.  But there are other tools…psychologists, divorce attorneys, mediators.  And you don’t have to splash out—some of them have written some fantasticContinue Reading